Your feminine secretly desires a man who will take you by the hand, claim you as his woman and lead the relationship. You want him to bring you home, throw you against the door, bend you over and make love to you.
You want him to decide where to take you, how to surprise you and how to command the situation.
You want him to take charge.
So why don't you let him?
Perhaps you heard or learnt the following things growing up:
Men are useless
Men always disappoint you
If you want a job done, do it yourself
You don’t need a man
Men are good for nothings
Men are just after one thing
Don’t waste your time on a man
So what did your feminine subconsciously decide?
You’d best be the masculine and the feminine and get it all done alone!
You can’t trust men to get the job done, so you’d better do it all by yourself
He won’t satisfy your desires
He will disappoint you
He won’t commit
It’s not SAFE to trust him
So you became:
Hyper independent
Over giving
Over doing
Overwhelmed
Angry
Resentful
Mistrusting
But secretly you desired...
Someone to hold YOU so YOU can receive.
Someone you feel safe enough with to surrender into his leadership
Someone to hear you and your needs
To be able to let go and trust your men will show up, step up and deliver
A conscious man who would make you feel SAFE
But the truth is...
To feel SAFE, you need to calibrate your nervous system
Release the trauma held deep inside your cellular system
Only THEN can you come back to safety and trust in your own body and feel safe to open up to trust in your man.
If this is speaking to you...
If this is speaking to you there are several ways I can help you!
- 1:1 Ancestral Healing sessions
- 1:1 Rebirthing Breathwork sessions
- Sacred Circle Sanctuary women’s circles
- Awaken Your Divine Feminine Codes 6 week journey
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